but I'm them talking has something to do with her sudden doubts. Its a bummer because she has been telling all our friends that she really likes me, and really likes the way a treat her. What the hell do I do? I can sense that he is pulling us apart, and I really like her. Is giving up my only option?

I wouldn't use the words 'give up' but rather you have to let her figure it out for herself. If she's not ready for a 'nice guy' and would prefer a 'super douche' there is nothing you can do to stop her. The only thing you need to do is be yourself and be a man and she'll either figure out you're a catch or she won't. If she doesn't, find someone else who's ready for a 'nice guy'.

I agree with metalmurf, let her know she has to make a decision. Either stays with x-douche and you move on, or picks you and
removes all contact with x-douche. All this, assuming she is mature
and responsible enough to honor any decision she makes. If, for
example, she picks you, but later on the x keeps showing up in
conversations, I'd get out instantly.

I clearly haven't since I was the one asking. I've high skepticism about the whole thing, tbh.

what the hell is craiglist? i feel soo unCool askin this

I won't even mention my experience with it, I will however leave it at it's some shady business....

umm if your trying to get laid it works.

Not to shit on your plan Athena but from what i've heard culinary school is worthless, the best path to becoming a great chef is starting off at the lowest position. I also hear there's no such thing as a great American chef and i know for a fact French Cuisine is where the money is. As for me, I work at an internet cafe and going to college for a degree in Aviation Science

Funny thing. 2 years ago I was thinking about doing exactly what you're doing. Decided against it due to the competitiveness factor.

im currently a student but i plan on joining the F.B.I.

I have absolutely no idea what I should do with my life. I love a bit of everything, IT, writing, acting, sports ... God, how I envy the
people that are born knowing what they're going to be when they
grow up.

@Aries I think the first part of your statement would only pertain to the level of advice you need. Reassurance that true love isn't movie drama and infatuation isn't really necessary for most vetted people. A true problem like whether or not you should stay with your husband and father of 3 of your kids probably requires deeper insight. The second part I wont address.

Yeah age doesn't count for much. I've known high schoolers more intelligent than people in their 30's. Not that it really matters since the person you'd want advice from would be someone who most relates to your own culture and belief system. It should also be noted that the majority of the time we say we want advice, we really want confirmation or just someone to listen.

Age is irrelevant. Experience is what matters. That is why some 20 year olds know more about sex and/or relationships than 40-50
year olds. And viceversa, ofc.

6,570 days. But seriously it's not about age, it's about whether you can relate to the situation and if you're offering advice to help or to make yourself feel superior.

depends on the situation..like that 2 girls 1 cup video, I would definitely agree with Athena and go for the ignorance is bliss

When someone is cheating on you but assume that you are happy as a clam and truly believe everything is fine and have no doubt whatsoever about your relationship.

I would want to know that the relationship that I am putting so much effort into isn't in vain. so yeah the knowing and miserable part I guess

Knowledge does not cause misery. Avoiding knowledge causes ignorance. An true shinobi always confronts his fears,instead of hiding behind an shadow of lies.It is the only way too progress in life.-ninja

sucks for you....good luck :)

Go go gadget-coffee/redbull !

i've had worse..good luck!

The situation soberingly clear then it is not convincing to me (or a jury) that you were fully opposed to the situation and that there was criminal intent. When you accuse someone of rape it is life changing even without a conviction. They are permanently labeled as a pervert and a bully, I personal would be happy seeing rapist executed. This is why it is necessary for when young women...

Are put in situations like this they know how to say know, and make the situation absolutely clear. Say no and follow it up with I have no desire to continue and if you continue you will be raping me. There will be absolutely no doubt in his mind that he is now crossing a criminal boundary, and that you have no interest in him. Any further pursuit by him is absolutely despicable and...

deserves to be treated with the prejudice allocated to only the most heinous of crimes. Although if you have failed to make it clear and "gave in" without properly clarifying the situation. You are submitting to peer pressure and nothing more. You feeling dirty does not make him a rapist. You cannot accuse every guy who has ever treated in a way that made you feel "dirty" of rape...

In the end the sense of dirtiness is not his fault or responsibility, not all men are gentlemen but that does not make them rapist. There are plenty of women who can tell you about times they were pressured into sex and eventually gave in but are under no delusion they were raped. The blame of these occurrences may lye with school or parents for not properly teaching their daughters how to ...

I actually dont like it when a guy shaves their balls and crotch area. It totally turns me off. I like when they maintain thier bush when it gets too big but shaving(even a little) turns me off.

i prefer it to be ehh. . .well maintained . dont hide the jewels but they dont need to be perfectly groomed and bald either

body unshaved. but down there it needs to be groomed. no bald shit. that's gross. but no jungle esp if you want me to go down.

As a guy, women are very happy when i shave my balls ( i know cus they tell me so). Not to mention you get more sensitivity. My friend was complains that his wife cease to suck his dick, and called me gay for shaving downstairs. I assumed his wife didn't want to suck his disgusting hairy dick and balls. Ironically gay guys at my wk said shaving ur genitals was "fag shit"

Aww! Your doggie looks like a sweetie!