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in : Breakup
Finally got me a rebound chick after the heart-break this past autumn. Feels GREAT!

I got to say though. I kind of forced it and I want to hear y'all's opinion. Forced dating is much harder for me than friendship-first dating. To define each.
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metalmurf replied 7 months ago
     

Forced Dating is like online dating, being set-up by friends, and calling a girl back you just met at the bar. Friendship-first is people you've know for a long time, mutual acquaintances, or folks you know from social groups.

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metalmurf replied 7 months ago
     

I feel like in Forced Dating there is always that pressure. Does she like me? Do I like her? I better make up my mind because we're either going to have sex or I'm never going to see her again. Friendship-first Dating you sort of develop more meaningful relationships with lots of time and relaxation. Then when the timing is just 'right' you jump into it.

OK. What's you're opinion now?

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in : Breakup
Its been about for a year and a half but my insides still feel like they r being pulled out, as if i am still connected to her, why won't the pain just go away already!
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joelle replied 7 months ago
     

Common wisdom: relationship mourning duration = 1/2 relationship duration

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UgoStrange replied 7 months ago
     

Breaks will do that to you. My advice is to refocus your energy on yourself. I can bet 10 to 1 that isn't losing sleep over you, so why make yourself crazy losing sleep over her. GET OUT THERE! Rediscover you and get yourself back on track. Trust me, it'll help you feel better AND it'll get you in a better place than you are now. Hope that helps Dude.

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crustacean replied 7 months ago
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Yes I am shallow but you need to find a rebound girl and fast. You're never going to get rid of the pain until you rebuild your self-confidence.

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in : Breakup
I have loved him for more than 9 years now.we were best friends for last 4 years,we were practically with each other all day...but he stopped speaking to me from October 2009..then 1 day he confessed that he loves me but he cant say it..he also said that he doesnt want to b with me in spite of feeling for me..he is planning to get married and im distraught..9 years of blind love..is goin..
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crustacean replied 8 months ago
     

Sounds like this guy is a mess. Just because you love somebody doesn't mean things could or should work out between you. Happily ever after is hard and it's really hard if the other person is messed up. I know it sounds harsh but someday you'll look back on this and count your blessings.

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Athena replied 8 months ago
     

This guy might have feelings for you, but he clearly doesn't respect you. How else could he string you along, stop talking to you altogether, confess his love for you, then tell you he doesn't want to be with you? He does not care about your feelings, and you are better off moving on and finding someone who does.

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lookingdeeper replied 7 months ago
     

trust me on this, i am/have been there, leave him. cut off all contact no matter how much it hurts and u will be better for it, in time

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in : Breakup
I just broke up with my girlfriend, did I make the right decision?
I still care a lot about her, but we had been dating for 3 years, and I didn't feel like I was going to marry her. Now that we have been separated for a week, I find myself questioning if I made the right decision. I have been so lonely.
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Kuzmak replied 10 months ago
     

I think you made the right decision. There is no point in wasting time with someone you don't see as a long-term partner. Get back in the dating pool. It will be good for you to see what else is out there. Don't let your temporary loneliness deter you from moving on.

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AnyaMarie replied 10 months ago
     

Respectively no one here can say whether or not you made the right decision.

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time_change replied 8 months ago
     

Dont do wats right or wrong in relationships bro.. and no one on earth does it.. cause its damn thing related to heart not brain.. In love break-ups are common cause it shows how bad ur relationship was or how good it is.. the break-ups are just passing clouds.. dont get carried away.. give time to urself. step out of ur current thinking and chill out..

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in : Breakup
help, girlfrien is pregnant. we are 15.
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Athena replied 11 months ago
     

Abortion? Adoption? Or you can try raising it yourselves. I'm not sure what other advice to give you. Seek counseling before making any decisions considering any decision will be a big one.

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AriesFire replied 11 months ago
     

agree with @Athena

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alex1992 replied 10 months ago
     

dam that sucks well id rather be 19 and pregnant than that dude so just have an abortion unless u have $

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in : Breakup
Is it ok to wish someone a "happy divorce"? First time somebody in my social circle divorces. Don't know what the social norms are. FTR: she seems happy with it, her soon-to-be-ex-husband talks bad about her. But I don't really know him so I only hear one side of the story. Anyway I was right 15y ago when I doubted the chances of a relation with somebody from the country of her grandparents.
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Athena replied 12 months ago
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I heard or read something recently about people having divorce parties, like the opposite of an engagement party. It really depends on the person, though. Even if you want a divorce, it can still be a very stressful time because of all the legal issues. You would know better than we would if wishing this person a happy divorce is appropriate.

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crustacean replied 12 months ago
     

"Happy Divorce" sounds ridiculous. Even if a divorce is the best thing for both parties it still isn't something to be celebrated. At that point why not just say "Hey congratulations on finally fixing your really stupid decision!" Same thing.

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in : Breakup
Please help! I took my husband's i-phone and found a raunchy picture of him attached to an e-mail to a woman in his sent e-mail file. When I approached him about this (I think that he is cheating on me) he admitted that he took the picture but says that he never sent it to anyone. He claims that he went to the Genius Bar at the local Apple store and they told him that it is an i-phone glitch:
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Anonymous replied 1 years ago
     

that photos sometimes automatically attach themselves to an e-mail address and appear in the sent folder, even though no e-mail was ever sent. Has anyone ever heard of this happening? The future of my marriage depends on this answer!

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joelle replied 1 years ago
     

Huh ? Let me get this straight: you're more concerned about how an iPhone works than about your husband cheating ?

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jobbijobba replied 1 years ago
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Its a glitch, but only happens if the pic is sufficiently raunchy.

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UgoStrange replied 1 years ago
     

Your husband is cheating. Photos don't attache themselves to e-mails and send themselves to strangers.

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in : Breakup
I am so sick of ungrateful b******s in my life. Especially him. I want him to leave but he won't. He's emotionally abusive and physically intimidating...he just broke the full length mirror in my bathroom :o( What do I do?
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sophie replied 1 years ago
     

restraining order :)

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UgoStrange replied 1 years ago
     

Stuff like this pisses me off, when guys get a woman in their lives and then treat them like dirt. I agree with Sophie, restraining order ! Also if this is a frequent pattern in your life, I strongly suggest reevaluating where you go to meet guys and go a different route. Hope things work out for you. Do check back and let us know.

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Turk replied 1 years ago
     

Call the cops

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in : Breakup
no body shud break the relations with love ones...!!
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sophie replied 1 years ago
     

that only sounds great in theory

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annon replied 1 years ago
     

What are you, twelve years old ? It's never that simple. Sometimes the only thing you can do for the one you love is let her/him go.

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AriesFire replied 1 years ago
     

i let you free annon...go be with big boob girl!

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annon replied 1 years ago
     

^You know the one I always go back to is you.

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in : Breakup
She was a b****. I dumped her. I got married and have a kid. She facebooked me - wants to apologize for her being a b****. She got married, has a 4 year old. My wife knows about her but not recent contact. I thought I had moved on but I realize I have not since I still hate her. I feel like wanting to unload all my hate on her. I have ignored her friends request. Waht to do?
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Turk replied 1 years ago
     

Don't let the past haunt your future. Let it go

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izziefans replied 1 years ago
     

Thanks for the advice Turk...but wtf is going on here. Where is everyone? 3 days and only 1 reply?

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Waverly replied 1 years ago
     

ignore her, she's not worth your anger:)

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Athena replied 1 years ago
     

Don't start a cyber war, no matter how much you hate her. This is a classic case of you needing to be the bigger person, and that means declining her request and moving on.

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