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UgoStrange

UgoStrange • Deer's Town,MI (lol)

Dating an AMAZING woman. I love her beyond belief.

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Okay Ladies and Gents. Here's my question, Ladies do you try to change your boyfriend and if so, do you change him into a better person OR who you want him to be ? And Gents, do you resist change because you're stubborn or do you feel like she's trying to control you ? Good topic, chime in.
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annon replied 2 months ago
     

I've always accepted constructive criticism, but if she starts getting bossy with lines like "I don't like it when you / I really dislike how
you", she can get her b****y ass out of my face. Except in bed, in
bed she can be as bossy as she wants. "A lady in the street, but a
freak in the bed", a wise Ludacris once said.

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sophie replied 2 months ago
     

I would never try to change someones personality, but small things like, make him quit sleeping on the couch with shoes on, or get him to clean up after himself a bit more, small things like that I think are acceptable...as far as personality goes that's the way he is, and always will be. You either accept it or leave him.

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UgoStrange replied 2 months ago
     

I wouldn't exactly call not cleaning up after themselves to be a small thing, my brother doesn't clean up after himself and it makes me wanna stab him in the eye, I can't imagine having a girlfriend/boyfriend who would be opposed to performing such a menial task. But I see both your points. n_n;;

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Athena replied 2 months ago
     

Everyon has flaws, and if you want to bring someone's flaws to their attention to make them a better person, I have no problem with that. I really hate it, though, when girls try to dress their guy and make him style his hair a certain way.

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So I'm back and...yep it's official. I'm in Love, engaged and did I mention in love ? Yep I am in Love with an amazing woman ! That is all I wanted to share. I'M IN LOVE and ENGAGED ! WOOT! I'll stop now.
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joelle replied 3 months ago
     

What ? Engaged so fast ? Congrats anyway !

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UgoStrange replied 3 months ago
     

Fast ? It's been 3 years...unless 3 years is fast ? I really don't know dating speeds considering I haven't dated. So if 3 years is fast, I really didn't know, not that I care. And thank you n_n;;

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Athena replied 3 months ago
     

Congrats! Best of luck to the two of you :-)

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sophie replied 3 months ago
     

congrats!!!

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So...my girlfriend's "friend" ruined my surprise visit to see her by checking into my cover story. My Gf's is Kim and her "friend" is Melissa. And get this...Melissa is mad at Kim for not being mad at me because I lied to her about where I was gonna be. Needless to say, Melissa knew I was going to come over, so it's only logical that I'd have to lie to Kim as to not spoil the surprise.
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UgoStrange replied 3 months ago
     

So Melissa raises a big fuss about it and yells at Kim about it, basically spilling everything. Then Melissa sent me a message telling me "I hate you." keep in mind...this woman is in her 30's. I am absolutely livid.

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annon replied 3 months ago
     

Wow, reading this felt like watching a Deer Town version of Young and Restless. Not that I watch Young and Restless .. your mom
does .. when I .. and she.. nevermind.

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UgoStrange replied 3 months ago
     

So you and Ray William Johnson are both doin' my mom...this is a great day...Of course, I'm being silly. Annon you never cease to crack me up. n_n;;

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annon replied 3 months ago
     

You americans don't know cracking up ! Haha, I guess I'm not the only RWJ fan around. *high five*

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A wise man once said the following:

"Whatever you give a woman, she will make it greater, give her sperm she will make a baby, give her a house she will give you a home, give her groceries she will give you a meal, give her a smile she will give you her heart. She multiplies and enlarges what she is given. So if you give her any crap, be ready to receive a ton of shit...
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Athena replied 3 months ago
     

Haha, I kind of like that.

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Turk replied 3 months ago
     

HAHAHAHA epic

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sophie replied 3 months ago
     

LOL

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love_your_stuff replied 3 months ago
     

Cute

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Piggybacking on what AriesFire said, not too long I remember a friend of mine telling me that her father told her explicitly NOT to date anyone Black. He specifically said Black. So I'm curious, and this is mostly for the white women here, have any of your relatives said this to you ? Or something similar ?
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UgoStrange replied 4 months ago
     

By the way, she's White in case anyone's wondering.

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AriesFire replied 4 months ago
     

You can piggy back me anytime sweetie xoxo But I get that a lot too. Guys are intimidated to date me because of family pressures to not date black women. Their familities would be more accepting to their sons IR dating if i were white (in the case of minorities dating "outside" the race) But after the parents actually meet me, they love me. (except JJ Guy parents) understand?

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UgoStrange replied 4 months ago
     

I do understand. However my reason for asking is it seems as if Black is a problem. Each time I've talked to most of my White female friends their Father explicitly said Black, not Latino or Arabic or Indian or Native American or Jewish or so on, it was specifically Black. Kinda makes me wonder if it's JUST Black people and not everyone else.

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UgoStrange replied 4 months ago
     

There's a scene in "The Sopranos" in which Meadow brings home a Black/Jewish boy, they weren't dating at the time and Tony expresses his disgust with the boy's interest in Meadow making the conversation explicitly racist. I wonder if we would've reacted the same to your average White boy or an Irish kid. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rynqbJ53DBE

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Merry Christmas all.
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annon replied 5 months ago
     

I'm so f****** tired of hearing this all day long from eveybody.

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magneticembrace replied 5 months ago
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there he goes again.

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annon replied 5 months ago
     

^STOP. TROLLING. ME.

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AriesFire replied 5 months ago
     

Why not just Happy Holidays?

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*offers everyone on the site bacon*

It's a good day today.
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magneticembrace replied 5 months ago
     

Except the vegans. Mmmm bacon.

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UgoStrange replied 5 months ago
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*as John Travolta in "Pulp Fiction"* But Bacon taste good, pork chops taste good.

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annon replied 5 months ago
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You know what they call a quarter pounder with cheese in Paris ? God, I f****** love Tarantino and his insanely brilliant movies.

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annon replied 5 months ago
     

brb watching kill bill and inglourious basterds again.

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So anyways I told someone that I don't drink alcohol and he acted as if I said I had Herpes or something. He asked me "Why ?" and I told him it wasn't because I'm scared or trying to be "better" than anyone,and it's not like I'm gonna stop someone from drinking, it's just I really don't see a point in drinking something I have to be conscious of. Does anyone understand that ?
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zen replied 5 months ago
     

You're missing out buddy. Drinks are good times.
Someday you'll be in a situation when you have no choice to be hammered, be prepared for it...
If you go through life without being completely shitfaced at least once, you haven't really lived.

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UgoStrange replied 5 months ago
     

I've seen shitfaced and between you and me...I'd much rather not...*shudders*

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zen replied 5 months ago
     

casual drinking is good on a regular basis, but as a man you need to learn how to take alcohol. mark my words, just wait till your bachelor party ;)

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zen replied 5 months ago
     

@UgoStrange, sometimes I think you're too level headed and cerebral. take it down a notch. I find the more intelligent you are, the less fun you'll be having.

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What's the best kinda foreplay ? Question for the ladies.
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joelle replied 5 months ago
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Begging

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UgoStrange replied 5 months ago
     

Best answer ever.

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imverysnorky replied 5 months ago
     

i like when a girl rubs my body and kind of caresses it while making out and going for my cock.

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dongle replied 5 months ago
     

Game of snooker and a beef sandwich

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