postsecret asked 2 weeks ago in : Sex
So i'm completely in love with my husband. Would die for this man and the whole nine yards and have done whatever i can for him. My problem i am a very sexual person and as much as i love him he refuses me it. i found no pleasure in 'self sex' and have had many vivid dreams/ fantasies of my guy friends and even female friends. I so badly have tried everything and i'm losing my grip should i cheat?
Jitterbug replied 2 weeks ago
Work out a little that should get your hormones going and believe me guys pick up on that. Maybe try and look pretty yourself up next time your going to make a move, get him warmed up with a little foreplay and oral. If this doesn't work there is no saving him or your relationship, cheat on him or quite. If he isn't even trying to satisfy you its pretty much his fault. I don't say that often.
juicy_j replied 2 weeks ago
WOW. So many guys out there are horn dogs, why you pick them one? Maybe his six drive is Shot! Well is he not for filling your natural sexually needs, then should let you at least open up the marriage and have a "f*** friend" READ the book THE ETHICAL SLUT to figure out how.
postsecret replied 2 weeks ago
i've tried all the said suggestions. he has his times and then quits. the relationship on it's own is good without sex. is there a way to tell him i need it and if i go to my friends how do i tell them i just need the sex nothing more?
postsecret replied 2 weeks ago
the ethical slut humm... is it worth the buy and where?
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