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sophie

sophie • chicago- illinois

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The guy I've been dating for six months proposed to me last night, how do I gently turn him down?
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crustacean replied 10 months ago
     

Wow. Honestly I don't think there is a way to gently turn him down. It's probably going to crush him. The best I can suggest would be to distract him and tell him you want to go on a vacation to a beach with him instead. That says that you still want him but not marriage.

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crustacean replied 10 months ago
     

Nobody else? Usually this is where Athena steps in and says something profound while I just look like an ass...

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Athena replied 10 months ago
     

No worries, I'm here :) Sorry, I've been living at work the past two weeks. I actually had the same thing happen to me twice. This is the point in the relationship where you need to ask yourself whether or not you want to marry this man. If the answer is no, you need to end things because you clearly have different expectations for the relationship. If the answer is yes, but you aren't

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Athena replied 10 months ago
     

ready yet, let him know you want to take things more slowly. Honestly, 6 months isn't a long time to be dating, and I totally understand why you would be hesitant. If he loves you, he should be more than willing to wait until you are comfortable enough to agree to marriage. After all, if the ultimate goal is to spend the rest of your lives together, he shouldn't rush you into marriage.

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I just had underwater sex. it was awesome!!
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AriesFire replied 1 years ago
     

naughty girl :P any tips for us folks who haven't done it underwater?

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sophie replied 1 years ago
     

pace yourself so you don't have to come up for air as often

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Turk replied 1 years ago
     

O.O

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AriesFire replied 1 years ago
     

lol, you go flounder! :o)

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damn just noticed all the old funny posts are gone..
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Turk replied 1 years ago
     

THAT SUCKS!!!

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cupidlies replied 1 years ago
     

Why? Because they took them down? Do you know what happened? My first day on the site...would have loved to read them...

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everyone has their limits or the lines they won't cross, sexually what are yours?
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UgoStrange replied 1 years ago
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Anal, Bringing anyone else in (guy or chick, doesn't matter), Golden Showers, Fecal matter or vomit, drawing blood or causing nearly lethal amounts of pain. Those are the only lines I can think of, but other than that everything else is cool.

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Athena replied 1 years ago
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Mostly agree^ No excessive pain, although a little can be fun, and nothing involving human waste of any kind. As I believe we have mentioned before, I also find pedophilia, necrophilia, incest, and beastiality disgusting. That might be it...

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annon replied 1 years ago
     

Pretty much what has been said so far, to which I'd like to add having ANYTHING coming near my anus and bukkake.

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stopdroplol replied 1 years ago
     

Haven't found a line yet, let you know if I do though..

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what is the worst thing you have ever done in a relationship?
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magneticembrace replied 1 years ago
     

in an actual relationship, probably just not being completely open/giving myself to someone. i'm really hesitant about that shit. and self-sabotage. in those not exclusive, seeing each other kind of relationships, i've done way worse.

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saugo replied 1 years ago
     

I happen to accept "no"
I have a dream that seems impossible ... I'd like to see my girl enjoy her or his pleasure ... I would love to see her masturbate ... I know it's trite but I find it is very exciting as what ... I always say no, to problems we had in the past ... The thing is highly depressing ...

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annon replied 1 years ago
     

Be a distant and lying douchebag, usually at the start of a few relationships, but that's because I didn't trust those girls enough.

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AriesFire replied 1 years ago
     

Being too nice, caring and understanding...

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Are any of you in a really good relationship?
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UgoStrange replied 1 years ago
     

I am in a GREAT relationship that's only getting better and better each day and I mean that 2 years, a few bumps here and there, BUT we ALWAYS push our way through. Things are good, you can't O.D. on love and I have tried !

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twojsmom replied 1 years ago
     

Very happy 10 year marriage...Not perfect...but very loving and mutually beneficial..here

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substance replied 1 years ago
     

yes really happy, have been living together for 6 months, these have been happiest time of my life, why do you ask?

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sophie replied 1 years ago
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most of what you see on this site is royal screw ups, creeps and miserable relationships....just wondering if there was anyone on this site that was in a good relationship

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my neighbors boyfriends wrote "I love you" in the snow for her.....in pee! someone please explain to me how that's romantic.
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sophie replied 1 years ago
     

ok never mind just found out if was her ex.....now it makes sense :)

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magneticembrace replied 1 years ago
     

Talent.

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Pshhh replied 1 years ago
     

awww....sweet!

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juicy_j replied 1 years ago
     

Don't be a hater!

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I was counseling this one guy today and he mentioned how he's into necrophilia....safe to say I'm traumatized after hearing about his "experiences"
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nessa replied 1 years ago
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god damn!!! that's a million times worse than any of the nasty creepy shit I've said... How the hell do you ever figure out you have a frenzy for f****** dead bodies???

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annon replied 1 years ago
     

lol, nice pals you got there.

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annon replied 1 years ago
     

No, that's interspecies sex imo. With necro and pedo on close 2nd and 3rd.

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annon replied 1 years ago
     

Yep, these are the kind of thoughts that have kept me away from the good schools.

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My ex showed up at my door today, drunk and screaming how he was the one who raped me and took my virginity while I was passed out at a party a couple years back....the security cameras in the hallway caught everything, but would it hold up in court as a confession if he was drink?
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magneticembrace replied 1 years ago
     

probably not.

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Jitterbug replied 1 years ago
     

Worth a try, at least his family would know what kind of man he was.

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heartofthepoet replied 1 years ago
     

So long as you have the camera footage, you shouldn't need a confession. I'm so sorry and wish you the best of luck in trial.

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stopdroplol replied 1 years ago
     

Well theres no Statute of limitations for rape. Drunk doesn't matter, you're responsible for everything you say. Do you have these tapes? Are you sure you wanna press charges?

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some guy actually used this line on my friend...
"girl did you just fart, because you blew me away!!"......thoughts?
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stopdroplol replied 1 years ago
     

lame

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nessa replied 1 years ago
     

what an asswipe

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sophie replied 1 years ago
     

my initial reaction to it was to just laugh not stop, but then it was a bit concerning after figuring out the guy was serious about it, like he genuinely thought it would work....

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juicy_j replied 1 years ago
     

I'm going to use that....! thanks!

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