I should add that she is even more beautiful now than when we were together, we've matured, and we're both independent. She's never remarried. Some really bad stuff happened, but love was not the problem, neither was sex or compatibility. I mistakenly remarried, divorced again, been single 7 yrs now, but damn I love her still. She says I ruined her for all men because we were quite romantic...
WOW! You seem very scattered! You have history and very comfortable with you ex-wife, and seem have some deep emotional attachment. You got divorce for a reason, you state for marrying young, but you seem to have the same boyish ways. WHAT WAS THE PROBLEM? You neglect to state the reason why you really got divorce and if it's not there.
You're living in the past, man!
she was 20 and got strung out when i went overseas for a year in military. i stayed angry about it and never was there to help her get over it...so we both ran - me from her just like she'd run to the dope. that was a long time ago,
i seem to be very good at seeing thru other people's issues but have a lot of difficulty seeing thru my own. Like everyone else, I just want to be happy with someone who is happy with me.
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Before you can be happy with someone else, you must first be happy with yourself. Make yourself happy and finding someone who adds to your happiness will be all the easier.
It's always easier to give advice than receive it. Or see your own problems clearly. Chin up. It'll happen.
thanks. i do have a good question to post and i think i've just figured out how to word it.
Looks like you're doing fine to me. :)
cool. thanks
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