A crush is more of in love with the idea of a person rather than the person themselves. I had a crush on a girl in High school but it would NOT have worked out at all between us. Love is when you see that person's flaws and you still don't care about them because you really care about them more than anything else superficially.That answer it ? o.o

You're probably NOT gay then...you're probably bi or something.

Forced Dating is like online dating, being set-up by friends, and calling a girl back you just met at the bar. Friendship-first is people you've know for a long time, mutual acquaintances, or folks you know from social groups.

I feel like in Forced Dating there is always that pressure. Does she like me? Do I like her? I better make up my mind because we're either going to have sex or I'm never going to see her again. Friendship-first Dating you sort of develop more meaningful relationships with lots of time and relaxation. Then when the timing is just 'right' you jump into it.

OK. What's you're opinion now?

I'm sad that you think I'm fat.
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I just started !

@annon, what the matter?

I'm not drunk but I still love you !

but I'm them talking has something to do with her sudden doubts. Its a bummer because she has been telling all our friends that she really likes me, and really likes the way a treat her. What the hell do I do? I can sense that he is pulling us apart, and I really like her. Is giving up my only option?

I wouldn't use the words 'give up' but rather you have to let her figure it out for herself. If she's not ready for a 'nice guy' and would prefer a 'super douche' there is nothing you can do to stop her. The only thing you need to do is be yourself and be a man and she'll either figure out you're a catch or she won't. If she doesn't, find someone else who's ready for a 'nice guy'.

I agree with metalmurf, let her know she has to make a decision. Either stays with x-douche and you move on, or picks you and
removes all contact with x-douche. All this, assuming she is mature
and responsible enough to honor any decision she makes. If, for
example, she picks you, but later on the x keeps showing up in
conversations, I'd get out instantly.

Well a lot of factors go into cheating. Like his/her bf/gf beat her or she's just totally mean to the guy then I could how those situations would lead someone to cheat. BUT if they have a history of cheating randomly...I'd TOTALLY support "Once a cheater always a cheater."

I don't like generalizations like this. Depends on the guy and why he cheated to begin with. I don't believe this is always true but is probably "mostly true". For me I'd like to think that I'm not destined to be "always a cheater" because I had a poor choice in the past.

This is SO not true, I've cheated plenty of times in the past!...Oh wait...

Yeah its a pretty good rule of thumb

Common wisdom: relationship mourning duration = 1/2 relationship duration

Breaks will do that to you. My advice is to refocus your energy on yourself. I can bet 10 to 1 that isn't losing sleep over you, so why make yourself crazy losing sleep over her. GET OUT THERE! Rediscover you and get yourself back on track. Trust me, it'll help you feel better AND it'll get you in a better place than you are now. Hope that helps Dude.

Yes I am shallow but you need to find a rebound girl and fast. You're never going to get rid of the pain until you rebuild your self-confidence.