Sounds like this guy is a mess. Just because you love somebody doesn't mean things could or should work out between you. Happily ever after is hard and it's really hard if the other person is messed up. I know it sounds harsh but someday you'll look back on this and count your blessings.

This guy might have feelings for you, but he clearly doesn't respect you. How else could he string you along, stop talking to you altogether, confess his love for you, then tell you he doesn't want to be with you? He does not care about your feelings, and you are better off moving on and finding someone who does.

i'd take it out if i were you, trust me

I second that.

Be there for her. It's times like this when she needs someone in her life she can go to and feel safe with. Things will eventually get back to the way they were. My girlfriend's father passed away '09 and she took it hard but I was there for her and eventually things got back to normal. So just let her cry and do what she needs to and be there for her.

Thanks. That's pretty much what I've been doing but when you are really into someone like I am her it is difficult to watch her saddness. I don't want to be too "needy" or too available. It goes against my nature but I've been burned in the past for putting my feeling "out there" This time I think I need to be smart and sit back and let thisngs flow !

Sometimes ya just gotta risk getting burned.

if you mean position, i like her on top, less work on my part and more to look at lawl !

anything oral related =)

It's cheating to me because if you really cared for the guy you're with now, you wouldn't tolerate that kind of behavior from your text buddy or yourself. Be true to yourself. Decide what you want. If it's with this text buddy or just single, show your current boyfriend and yourself some respect and break-up with him.

Completely agree^ You're seeking sexual attention from someone other than your bf, and even if it isn't physical, you're still going behind his back.

The simplist rule of thumb is that if you feel guilty then it's cheating (or you're just an ass).

i don't play that shit. my girl goes around textin' some dude i don't know and flirtin' you can believe imma ask what's up.

same here..I haven't been here in about a year

Yesssssssss, love it

I think it's an intimacy thing with them. With me too for that matter. Doesn't bother me when they do it. In fact I welcome it.

you a braver man than me dude, i can do without gettin a taste of my own man yogurt

So it's cool for a girl to swallow your load, but if she tries to kiss you after, that's disgusting? Ha!

i never tell a chick she gotta swallow. if she wants i ain't gonna stop her.

In a long distance relationship, communication IS VERY important! Talk to her and see what's going on with her. Long Distance relationships don't HAVE to be difficult. I'm in one now, been that way for 3 years, going on 4 and we did that through communication. Listen to her, let her b**** if she wants to b**** and let her know you're there. Hope that helps.