Black people tend to stifle themselves and project things on to non-white people (I guess it goes both ways), and allot of time see themselves as "other." If ur an individual an you think in "WE"..WE black people...We white people...you're putting ur self in a box. People who do that create social pressure and project it on others. Be an individual not a representative of ur skin color.

Could you refine that thought in a sexual/romantic context?

precisely, I would have said the same, but I'm genuinely curious about the first question and wanted to keep the convo moving. What do you think, AriesFire?

Precisely nothing! You don't have to look at the world through a prism. people can judge and stereotype you but doesn't mean you have to embrace their judgment. I'm a member of my family, but not a REPRESENTATIVE of my family. My actions and thought are independent, and have no fear of embarrassing myself or not action out what my family, people of same race, or "people." think. I do what i want..

This is certainly an individual preference but I know that I have been with more men who were too big then too small. Somewhere between 5 and 7" is a good length and a cicumference of 3-4" sounds great to me.

honestly the best sex i've ever had was with a guy w a smaller dck, he wasnt that thick and the length was like 5in, but he knew how to work it and got the job done every time. sometmes guys that r bigger are kinda clumsy and make you do all the work, well thats in my experience.

Great, I'm right at 7" length a 4" width! Thanks, ppl!

were you concerned that you were too small?

Go. Ambient/lounge for love making and .. smth sexy for regular sex, rnb or wtvr.

Personally, I like the work of Nujabes. he's a japanese hip-hp composer. He specializes in hip-hop/jazz fusion. Anyone else?

I'd rather have sex with a woman. Music just doesn't have the same effect....

You tell her how to do it while she's doing it. Make it sound friendly, not "b1tch you're doing it wrong!"

hmmm what do you know about giving good blowjobs , mister?

try "I love it when you do - ooh baby".
btw my wife once asked me how should could be better at bj's. I had to tell her honestly: at least pretend that you actually like it.

Use a metaphor - describe the various areas like parts of a Nintendo controller or something. For me as long as the girl knows where the pause buttons are and stays away from them I'm happy.

As far as pre-cum she might be telling you the truth, smoking, garlic, milk, and a whole host of other stuff can make semen bitter. Try eating cherries, pineapples, and other naturally sweet foods. Let her know you are trying to change it to make it better for her.

If this does not help then you only have two options, cut her off from oral sex as well. Remind her that when you are down there you have to put your whole face in it and swallowing is not an option. Plus, ladies...you don't always taste so hot yourselves. The other option, is to get over it and take the once a year blow job like so many guys do. It makes your birthday better at least.

Thanks,ppl!

AriesFire gave the good advice on this one.