Breakup
I got to say though. I kind of forced it and I want to hear y'all's opinion. Forced dating is much harder for me than friendship-first dating. To define each.
Forced Dating is like online dating, being set-up by friends, and calling a girl back you just met at the bar. Friendship-first is people you've know for a long time, mutual acquaintances, or folks you know from social groups.
I feel like in Forced Dating there is always that pressure. Does she like me? Do I like her? I better make up my mind because we're either going to have sex or I'm never going to see her again. Friendship-first Dating you sort of develop more meaningful relationships with lots of time and relaxation. Then when the timing is just 'right' you jump into it.
OK. What's you're opinion now?
Common wisdom: relationship mourning duration = 1/2 relationship duration
Breaks will do that to you. My advice is to refocus your energy on yourself. I can bet 10 to 1 that isn't losing sleep over you, so why make yourself crazy losing sleep over her. GET OUT THERE! Rediscover you and get yourself back on track. Trust me, it'll help you feel better AND it'll get you in a better place than you are now. Hope that helps Dude.
Yes I am shallow but you need to find a rebound girl and fast. You're never going to get rid of the pain until you rebuild your self-confidence.
Sounds like this guy is a mess. Just because you love somebody doesn't mean things could or should work out between you. Happily ever after is hard and it's really hard if the other person is messed up. I know it sounds harsh but someday you'll look back on this and count your blessings.
This guy might have feelings for you, but he clearly doesn't respect you. How else could he string you along, stop talking to you altogether, confess his love for you, then tell you he doesn't want to be with you? He does not care about your feelings, and you are better off moving on and finding someone who does.
trust me on this, i am/have been there, leave him. cut off all contact no matter how much it hurts and u will be better for it, in time
I still care a lot about her, but we had been dating for 3 years, and I didn't feel like I was going to marry her. Now that we have been separated for a week, I find myself questioning if I made the right decision. I have been so lonely.
I think you made the right decision. There is no point in wasting time with someone you don't see as a long-term partner. Get back in the dating pool. It will be good for you to see what else is out there. Don't let your temporary loneliness deter you from moving on.
Respectively no one here can say whether or not you made the right decision.
Dont do wats right or wrong in relationships bro.. and no one on earth does it.. cause its damn thing related to heart not brain.. In love break-ups are common cause it shows how bad ur relationship was or how good it is.. the break-ups are just passing clouds.. dont get carried away.. give time to urself. step out of ur current thinking and chill out..
Abortion? Adoption? Or you can try raising it yourselves. I'm not sure what other advice to give you. Seek counseling before making any decisions considering any decision will be a big one.
agree with @Athena
dam that sucks well id rather be 19 and pregnant than that dude so just have an abortion unless u have $
I heard or read something recently about people having divorce parties, like the opposite of an engagement party. It really depends on the person, though. Even if you want a divorce, it can still be a very stressful time because of all the legal issues. You would know better than we would if wishing this person a happy divorce is appropriate.
"Happy Divorce" sounds ridiculous. Even if a divorce is the best thing for both parties it still isn't something to be celebrated. At that point why not just say "Hey congratulations on finally fixing your really stupid decision!" Same thing.
that photos sometimes automatically attach themselves to an e-mail address and appear in the sent folder, even though no e-mail was ever sent. Has anyone ever heard of this happening? The future of my marriage depends on this answer!
Huh ? Let me get this straight: you're more concerned about how an iPhone works than about your husband cheating ?
Its a glitch, but only happens if the pic is sufficiently raunchy.
Your husband is cheating. Photos don't attache themselves to e-mails and send themselves to strangers.
restraining order :)
Stuff like this pisses me off, when guys get a woman in their lives and then treat them like dirt. I agree with Sophie, restraining order ! Also if this is a frequent pattern in your life, I strongly suggest reevaluating where you go to meet guys and go a different route. Hope things work out for you. Do check back and let us know.
Call the cops
that only sounds great in theory
What are you, twelve years old ? It's never that simple. Sometimes the only thing you can do for the one you love is let her/him go.
i let you free annon...go be with big boob girl!
^You know the one I always go back to is you.
Don't let the past haunt your future. Let it go
Thanks for the advice Turk...but wtf is going on here. Where is everyone? 3 days and only 1 reply?
ignore her, she's not worth your anger:)
Don't start a cyber war, no matter how much you hate her. This is a classic case of you needing to be the bigger person, and that means declining her request and moving on.
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