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Anonymous asked 4 minutes ago in : Breakup

I have been involved with a girl for 5 years now and I am 20 and in college. She is a decent amount overweight but otherwise quite pretty. This is a problem for me because I take a lot of pride in my personal appearance and fitness and she is a stoner coach potato. I am getting to the point though where she is either going to have to lose weight or I'm going to find someone else.

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wuzcraccin713 replied 2 minutes ago

look for love

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HappyLady replied 1 minutes ago

I don't blame you. If she's like that now, how is she gonna be in a year?

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Anonymous asked 21 minutes ago in : Dating

I am like a lot of other guys on here 19yr never been kissed, on a date, and i'm a virgin. I go to community college and there are a lot of girls there but 95% have boyfriends and the one girl I like I don't know if she likes me back. We're classmates and talk a little but how do I see if she likes me? I just want to go on a fun date that we'd both enjoy nothing too serious @ first.

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wuzcraccin713 replied 19 minutes ago

then start small start talking to her say hi frm time to time ask her for lunch if u connect move on from their

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juicy_j replied 17 minutes ago

95% of girls DONT have boyfriends...you just see what you want. don't let this mind projection stop your from approaching girls. Assume all girl are available unless they state otherwise. Its essential you get over fear of rejection by APPROACHING girls! Asking them out. Getting their number. You will get rejected...but keep at it till you get good.

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juicy_j replied 16 minutes ago

if you approach 10 girls and 1 give you their number, your doing better than most guy who don't do anything. and just spend their time playing World of Warcraft and jacking it to netporn

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niteowl replied 6 minutes ago

I'm 18 years old and in community college and I can tell you that, like you, I've never been out on a date, never had a bf, never been kissed, and clearly a virgin. In a place like community college, girls like guys that pay some attention to their studies. We're like dogs : we can smell fear. If you try too hard to get a girls attention, prepared to be ignored.

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cafemocha asked 1 hours ago in : Day in, day out

Why are women so fucking dumb? I love pussy, ass and tits don't get me wrong but it just seems like they lack the fucking mental capacity to understand common sense shit! Driving, saving money, relationships, loyalty, politics, ect! ect!

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wuzcraccin713 replied 58 minutes ago

is cuz females are just so stubborn

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juicy_j replied 53 minutes ago

you probably date and attract low-class women. Do you have a jerry curl or a gold toofus? Make yourself more appealing to smart women by going to college and taking a women's study class... Referring to women as being "fucking dumb" doesn't help?

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wuzcraccin713 replied 51 minutes ago

o yea thats also true wut juicy_j said

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AriesFire replied 51 minutes ago

ditto juicy_j attach low budget superficial divas, you get low budget superficial divas....

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cafemocha said 1 hours ago

Does your girls vagina smells like a dead fish market in the middle of July! I bet your probably wondering what should you do huh? You care about her and don't want to hurt her feelings! You just don't know an easy way of breaking it to her! Is it's so bad that the thought of having sex with her makes you nauseous! If the bitch is to dumb to take care of herself! Trust me don't waste your time!

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Anonymous asked 1 hours ago

I broke up with my boyfriend via text, am i a terrible person?

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wuzcraccin713 replied 1 hours ago

nope u are so kind hearted that u dint wanted to see his sad broken hearted face

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betterthanwho replied 1 hours ago

While I don't think it's a terribly polite thing to do. It's more commonly accepted than it should be. I don't think you're a terrible person at all. (at least just for this) but put yourself in his position and think about how you'd like it. Probably not a great feeling.

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TheWetherill replied 1 hours ago

No, of course not! In the future it might be better to talk in person, or send a long email (more considerate)
But what's done is done. Love always remains! =]

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juicy_j replied 1 hours ago

pretty weak and classless, but you can do what ever you want in life, their are NO RULES, but it does make you a bitch!

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Anonymous asked 1 hours ago in : Breakup

So there's this girl..We've been together for more than 2 years but this March I had to move with my family to another country. We tried to work out a LDR but she started seeing another guy about who she says is "just a friend".I dumped her but I can't get her out of my mind.She says she can't live without me and I still love her.She keeps insisting and I dunno what to do.Forgive or forget? Help!

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juicy_j replied 1 hours ago

move on. find better girls..

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wuzcraccin713 replied 53 minutes ago

i mean u live in another country so basicly its over right there im thinkin it should be easy for u to move on u live far away from her and she allready moved on trust me she is just feeling lonely

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montrealgirl replied 27 minutes ago

If you love her, you should try to make it work. If she says that he is just a friend, all you can do is trust her which should be easy if you love her. Good luck

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AriesFire replied 11 minutes ago

move on dude..u live in a different country....

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Buriss said 2 hours ago

Hi my name was originally Buris but some douchebag took it. I just wanted to let everyone know that im gay. I cant do this in reallife cause i dont have any confidence. But yes im gay and you can get ahold of me in exwow.com ventrilo. Thanks

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montrealgirl replied 26 minutes ago

kudos

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Anonymous said 2 hours ago in : Dating

I live in some horrific prison whose bars are made from my own irrational fear & anxiety of other people - and women of my demographic (early twenties) in particular. I don't why why I have such a primal fear of girls, but I cannot reason it away and it is making me miserable. I would love nothing more than a relationship, but I don't know what to do.

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Buriss replied 1 hours ago

are you gay like me?

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betterthanwho replied 1 hours ago

might I suggest 2 books. The Game by Neil Strauss or the Mystery Method by Mystery.

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anurre5 replied 1 hours ago

Try dating sites. You can start emailing and then talking on the phone before you meet. You get to know the person better that way and it eases you into meeting them.

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sevimipek replied 1 hours ago

as a girl i would suggest to not read mystery's book, everything that guy preaches is such a turn off for an quality girls, his whole game is about quantity

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Movis asked 2 hours ago

My names Movis and i am a faggot.

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cafemocha replied 2 hours ago

Congratulations

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wuzcraccin713 replied 1 hours ago

once again...Congratulations

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Entrenched52 replied 39 minutes ago

....yeah....for you...i guess

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anurre5 asked 2 hours ago

I met this guy 9 months ago. I went (and still) go back and forth on whether I want to get serious with him. He is a sweetheart and we are amazing friends. We also mess around sometimes. We didn't start anything because we were going to be moving for jobs. He just moved to WY and I don't like it where I am at right now. Should I move out there and start something?

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betterthanwho replied 2 hours ago

No. Don't uproot your whole life for someone. It puts way to much stress on a relationship that isn't even fully functioning yet. You guys aren't sure how you'll respond to each other in that dynamic. Why add more stress to an already semi-awkward situation of starting a relationship with a friend.

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anurre5 replied 1 hours ago

well, we were pretty much dating, just without making it official or getting serious..we just didn't want to start anything because of moving for our jobs.

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betterthanwho replied 1 hours ago

That's cool. I don't know the details of your relationship. I'm just saying think about the pressure it'll put on the both of you. Him with his new job, you trying to find a job. And suddenly you're both burdened (not really the right word but you get me) with a labeled relationship. Seems like a lot of added stress.

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sevimipek replied 1 hours ago

I moved for an ex-boyfriend of mine, and just like betterthanwho is saying it definitely puts an added pressure on ur relationship