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in : Dating
Taking a moment to say I'm having a wonderful time. For a while now I've been dating the best girl I've ever met. It's like she just always knows exactly what to say. I'm so pleased to able to make her happy! And on top of that it's the best sex of my life. Many of the things we do shes never done before and shes so surprised to like it..to love it and I'm happy to show her
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Waverly replied 1 years ago
     

that's great! happy for u:)

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MissAmarie replied 10 months ago
     

Congrats! Few people find true happiness, hold onto it :)

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For months I've had this feeling that the best things for me are right around the corner. All of a sudden so many positive things are happening for me. Was the feeling premonition, or does positive energy make it's own luck?
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artie_fm replied 1 years ago
     

Today an ex contacted me. I told her how much I regretted breaking up. I want a do over. She said she never stopped thinking of me over everyone else she had dated. She wanted a do over too, that was why she called. I don't know if it will work..but just a few minutes on the phone and it's clear what I saw in her.

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AriesFire replied 1 years ago
     

good luck bro.

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So we had talk last week. Asked if she wanted just friends she said no, she wanted a general step back for relationship. Less expectation and less intensity, more like friends. Is this the same as being just friends? Or is it just like earlier dating? I'm focusing on other girls as advised and having more success than ever before. Not with the girl I want. I did talk one with tremendous potential
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in : Sex
I went out last night and met a quality girl who is cute and nice. We had a connection and she came home with me. My mind is no longer on the relationship that just ended. The sex wasn't great. I feel unsatisfied and insecure about my skill. I think this was another one night stand. I should have stopped at cuddling/petting and left the rest to my imagination.
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dudester replied 2 years ago
     

You're right. you should have stopped, but what the heck. Is this all about you forgetting about your past relationship and your performance in bed. Or is this about meeting a nice cute quality girl? Be honest with yourself bud.

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juicy_j replied 2 years ago
     

Why should you have stopped? Go for broke, and don't live in regrets or what could have been. Most ppl dont do enough, but you gotta go to the edge to know what life's really about! Now, you know sex with thsi girl isnt good and/or you need to work on ur sexual performance. Take this a feedback, not failure.

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artie_fm replied 2 years ago
     

She contacted me so maybe it wasn't a one night stand. @dudester: been having bouts of low confidence. Was disappointed to find random sex just wasn't the boost I expected. @juicy_j I think you are right about the feedback thing. This is solvable and maybe she will be patient enough to help.

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in : Breakup
We didn't talk officially, but its over with a girl I've been seeing. We haven't been together in a long time, where we used to hang out twice a week. Phone calls are rare and short. I see her everyday, and recently she has been extra nice/flirty. I called and she was short with me. I'm sure ending it is for the best..but what do I do about the huge heartache.
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annon replied 2 years ago
     

Get busy doing other things you like, keep your mind off her and wait for the pain to go away. That's the only way.

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annon replied 2 years ago
     

Also, the less contact you have with her, the better.

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artie_fm replied 2 years ago
     

I don't think she is mean..just doesn't feel same as me although that doesn't explain why she goes out of way to sit next to me or come over and chat. Also she is back with her ex at least for now. I think the explaintion is she likes backup plans. Shes keeping all her options open.
Whatever..The only thing I have control over here is my insecurity. I need to fix me... how???

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artie_fm replied 2 years ago
     

trying to keep doing things I like. It's better than sitting at home, but not enough I think.

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in : Dating
she says that we've been in and out looking for something that works for both of us. She still thinks of her ex and talks to him. she also says we shouldn't have sex again until she figures out her feelings, that we're getting to know other. I can't understand any of this. I only understand I'm into you or I'm not into you. I think she enjoys time with me, but doesn't feel strongly.
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zen replied 2 years ago
     

Well how do you feel about this and what do you want to do?
Don't let her confused feeling dictate what you should do. If you don't feel cool about this it's perfectly reasonable to end it, and if she values you she'll come around.
Do what feels right for you, don't sacrifice your self respect for her confusion.

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artie_fm replied 2 years ago
     

qmonk: there's more to the story since a) she was with her ex in an open relationship when we started dating. a few months ago and b) we're just dating and not in a serious relationship.

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artie_fm replied 2 years ago
     

zen: I think I see things as too much black and white. That she is correct is saying I should just let things happen. But I just don't know how to do that.

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juicy_j replied 2 years ago
     

Dont be with ppl who hung up on past lovers. its weak. If you dont emotionally invest in them. Be the leading actor of your life, an don't settle for some supporting cast role. You deserve to be 1st class...if thats what you deserve. it seems how you think, you don't see your self on the top shelf...but beneath looking for validation from "cool" people. cant put ppl on pedestals like that.

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