that's great! happy for u:)
Congrats! Few people find true happiness, hold onto it :)
Today an ex contacted me. I told her how much I regretted breaking up. I want a do over. She said she never stopped thinking of me over everyone else she had dated. She wanted a do over too, that was why she called. I don't know if it will work..but just a few minutes on the phone and it's clear what I saw in her.
good luck bro.
You're right. you should have stopped, but what the heck. Is this all about you forgetting about your past relationship and your performance in bed. Or is this about meeting a nice cute quality girl? Be honest with yourself bud.
Why should you have stopped? Go for broke, and don't live in regrets or what could have been. Most ppl dont do enough, but you gotta go to the edge to know what life's really about! Now, you know sex with thsi girl isnt good and/or you need to work on ur sexual performance. Take this a feedback, not failure.
She contacted me so maybe it wasn't a one night stand. @dudester: been having bouts of low confidence. Was disappointed to find random sex just wasn't the boost I expected. @juicy_j I think you are right about the feedback thing. This is solvable and maybe she will be patient enough to help.
Get busy doing other things you like, keep your mind off her and wait for the pain to go away. That's the only way.
Also, the less contact you have with her, the better.
I don't think she is mean..just doesn't feel same as me although that doesn't explain why she goes out of way to sit next to me or come over and chat. Also she is back with her ex at least for now. I think the explaintion is she likes backup plans. Shes keeping all her options open.
Whatever..The only thing I have control over here is my insecurity. I need to fix me... how???
trying to keep doing things I like. It's better than sitting at home, but not enough I think.
Well how do you feel about this and what do you want to do?
Don't let her confused feeling dictate what you should do. If you don't feel cool about this it's perfectly reasonable to end it, and if she values you she'll come around.
Do what feels right for you, don't sacrifice your self respect for her confusion.
qmonk: there's more to the story since a) she was with her ex in an open relationship when we started dating. a few months ago and b) we're just dating and not in a serious relationship.
zen: I think I see things as too much black and white. That she is correct is saying I should just let things happen. But I just don't know how to do that.
Dont be with ppl who hung up on past lovers. its weak. If you dont emotionally invest in them. Be the leading actor of your life, an don't settle for some supporting cast role. You deserve to be 1st class...if thats what you deserve. it seems how you think, you don't see your self on the top shelf...but beneath looking for validation from "cool" people. cant put ppl on pedestals like that.
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