Babs6674 asked 3 days ago in : Dating
I went out last week with this great guy, but then a couple days went by, he didn't call, so I called him. Now we're going out again this weekend. I am so into him, but I don't want to seem desperate, especially because I was the one to ask him out this time. I know I should just be myself, but it's the whole "guys want to chase you" thing. Do I need to take a step back?
danceallnight replied 3 days ago
No! Guys don't have to be the ones to take that initiative. Good for you for calling him when you wanted to. As long as your not calling him all day or leaving him text messages all day, I say you're fine. If you follow that whole "guys want to chase you" thing, you may end up missing out on this "great guy". Just have fun!
juicy_j replied 3 days ago
Don't chase men, unless you want to end up with a pussy. You wait for a guy to chase you, not out of principle, but that Men will date, marry and have sex with women they "kinda" like simply for the sake of regular sex. Men and women are better off when a men are genuinely attracted to their woman. If your a guy is into you he'll show it. You like him...does he really like you?
juicy_j replied 3 days ago
Sounds like he's NOT that into you.
vixensly replied 3 days ago
honestly, men love the chase. you have to keep an air of mystery. you don't want to scare him off, you want to make HIM chase YOU. be interested but don't overpower him. men can smell desperation and honey it is not an attractive smell. let him get to know you and want to be the one pursuing you. so in short: take a step back but don't step outta the game ;)
Babs6674 asked 4 days ago in : Dating
Had a great date with an even greater guy. Do I wait for him to call or do I call him? I know the whole "he's just not that into you" thing, but he really did seem into me.
jerryc replied 4 days ago
Guys sometimes just don't get to call right after the date. Happened to me that I waited two or three days because I was doing something else and when I called in the end, one girl told me once that she thought I wouln't call anymore but was glad after all. So, if you want to call him... call him. I wouldn't mind.
Babs6674 replied 4 days ago
Thanks for giving me the go-ahead. I'm gonna call now.
andthebuddhasaid replied 3 days ago
Waiting for his call will prove how much you're worth to him. Just hope he isn't a stalker!
love_your_stuff replied 3 days ago
Call or don't call - just don't build up expectations. Stop having these crazy debates with yourself and get a hobby.
Babs6674 said 4 days ago in : Seduction
Had a date with this awesome guy last night. Dinner, movie, foooled around. He is so hot. I want to keep him interested tho, how do I do it?
adamplitt replied 4 days ago
(all him often.
Babs6674 replied 4 days ago
He's a consultant and very smart. We talked a lot. He still hasn't called though and I'm dying.
love_your_stuff replied 3 days ago
Expect nothing. If he calls, great. If not, whatever. It's expectations that make people crazy. Now that said if you want to do him send him a sexy picture in an e-mail or something.
ChocolatBoy1der replied 3 days ago
Here's where the difference between men and women is so obvious. In his mind you are probably starting to lose value because you gave up the goods so easily. In your mind his value is still high because he's smart, hot and has mad potential. Your chances are better at becoming his "bootie call" than marriage material.
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