If you want to try being normal friends with her, go for it. If not, then tell her so. Just be real with girls and the rest will follow the way it should.

Words cannot express how stupid you are if you accept her invite. That is, if you have feelings for her.

Agreed annon. If you have feelings then don't pretend like you just want to be friends. That's the worst thing you could do.

hmm ya.. i get that..i wanna try being a normal friend. i'l give it a shot. I'm going..

if she dumped you...you don't really have any control over her life or any say. Detach and move on. lingering will only make you feel more broken up.

Move on, if you end up in the same situation make sure that the guys knows your not going to let him destroy your relationship laying down. A lot of women actually like it when you stand up and act like a man, so let him know your not a b****. This ones over though just advice for the next one.

I agree with Aries on this one in addition to my original comments, he was just plotting against you in the first place. Next time lay down the law, but try not to be a complete overtly jealous douche. You seem like the kind of guy who knows the difference so trust your instincts.

juicy.. its kinda complicated in this case. we could not tell who dumped the other first.. lol.. the break-up just happened. points i should tell u ....1.he is like her brother... 2.she wont compromise on our friendhip.. i was like 'chuck the bf gf thingy' lets be frenz as we were before. she was more than happy to accept this... ..3.Sometimes she would say "i still have 'feelings' towards u..

Learn to properly speak the english language,

no dude. I had to 'cut n paste' from my previous post. I did it in haste. AND most importantly 400 characters ain't enough to tell u my feelings unless i talk abstractly by telling u the key points alone. lol.. sorry anyway :) Here in my country we people talk grammatically perfect English! (better than the British)!! ;) :D

That's debatable.

My grammar is better than yours, and I live in an American hick town called Springfield!

dont loose ur heart buddy.. just keep on trying.

Try harder? You've seem to done NOTHING. Shy girls if let to her set pace will do NOTHING. It's up to you to step up and MAKE IT HAPPEN. Be a man of action; ask her out, make a move...do something but wait.

@spicyscorpio, i get that.. this seems practical. thnx buddy :) The next time shez online i'l stop playing/flirting n start TALKING. I guess i have to 'listen' to her more to become closer n closer.. Another major problem inside college is that she is always surrounded by her gang for gals. her frenz are always around her.. like black-cat-commandos. lol . so Chating is the only potion i guess

yeah ashish.. aint gonna leave this girl.. will keep tryin :D @juicy_j: Dude.. i have made my intentions clear.. i made it so obvious to her. but u know., in India, things are a bit tough.. asking out isn't that easy at all. one wrong move n im done! :( ..u cant afford to do that unless u are so sure she likes u too..