yes, I'm sure there are many other men who have an overinflated sense of themselves, purely because they were born with a large penis

Zing ^

and by that I mean, Knowing what turns my girlfriend on (Check), Foreplay (Check), Knowing what she likes (Check), Going Slow and catering to her because it'll be her first time (Check), Not trying to do too much at once (Check) Oh yeah and the penis goes into The Vagina (Check)...So is there more to this ?

if you haven't had sex you really can't talk, sorry.

Sometimes the penis can go other places.. and if you haven't had sex you DON'T know anything. Sorry.. its like.. before I drove a car the first time.YES i knew the key starts the car, and the peddles stop and go.. but I had not rode a car yet. I found out once I drove the car it was a lot different than the stuff common sense taught me. Having sex is like driving a car. and everyone is different

I wasn't talking, merely asking. Is there more or do I have the basics? I do understand that there still is quite a bit of ground to cover and I'm not trying to come off as cocky (no pun intended), but are those at least the basics or have I overlooked something ? Also, I know the penis can go other places (ie, oral and anal) but me and my girlfriend both agreed the ass is an exit only.

it does impair your ability to give good head...laying on your sides (as opposed to bottom and top) I find helps some.

Still working on this one myself. I'll give twojsmom's suggestion a try, though. Thanks :)

I love me on top and him on bottom. Just having his hands rubbing my ass as he digs in and I pig out on his...just amazing! Sideways seems more of a hastle?

PIG OUT! lol you make me LOL but yes the normal 69 is the female on top and the man at the bottom.

I'd say..so you havent had sex because no one will have sex with you or because you were trying to figure yourself out before hoping into something new?

Well, if you want to continue this "relationship", you should be honest with how you feel and tell him about it. If he's a man of respect, he'll be honest with you as well whether he decides to pursue you or not.

hmm, do you want a relationship or just sex. After you figure out this answer..move forward.

You're a big girl by now. If you want to have sex with a 32 yr old go for it but don't pretend that it's going to be a long-term romantic relationship.

If it's 20-40 minutes of just sex, I can imagine that I would get pretty sore, but if there is some variety, 40 minutes sounds wonderful.

all pros. just mix it up. make sure she cums and cums a lot and she'll be all yours.

for real, I like 15-30 minutes of sex, because 1.) I'm a busy woman, 2.) I like it rough, 3.) Because if you're hitting it right, it doesn't take me any longer than 15 minutes to have a big O

I've always found that I take longer the less interested I am in a girl. 40 minutes would be pretty extreme unless you were really slowing things down in there.

My husband always takes at least 20 minutes to cum like that...I remember guys who came very quickly like this....why are you concerned?

Goodness, I cant blow a man for 20 mins straigt, my mouth starts hurting and gets dry.

What is the original way and how do you rub one out if the original way doesnt work honestly need clarification here

The original way is vaseline and your hand. I rub one out by using the friction in between legs to stimulate the head...kinda hard to explain...that's about as clear as I can put it without providing a visual.

weirdo

don't listen to stop but it is different i think...but im different as well and id imagine we all are.

Any fetish.

Aries

why me?

You can't be serious Aries.

all but the mouth. Lips maybe but not inside of my mouth.

anywhere they want and I don't mind swallowing

I tried to swallow, but I ended up choking and throwing up so hard some of it came out my nose :o(

^Ew. Never again, huh ?