Yes.

in some cases the second time as well..

It only hurts if he hits you - which is kind of pleasurable as well ;-)

It depends on how big he is and how tight you are. Chances are it will hurt a little at first, but you'll ease into it.

That's the dumbest thing I've heard in a while. But to answer your question, there's always handjobs, oral and anal sex if you want to
keep your himen intact at all costs. Foreplay can be quite fun, as
long as you finish him off to avoid a bad case of blue balls.

Hmmm, this is a much debated topic that no one seems to be able to agree upon. Do you lose you virginity upon losing your innocence, or is it not lost until you have been vaginally penetrated. I think most people believe it's somewhere in the middle, but only you can define what virginity means to you. What are you comfortable doing, and what are you comfortable having done to you?

^what she said^

I'm in the "virginity until marriage is a waste" camp but if you believe strongly in it then I'll support you. BJs and handjobs will do the trick for quite a while. Ask yourself though why your values are so much different than your boyfriends and does that matter to you.

He got in front of me, dropped to his knees and asked me to piss on him!! I thought he was joking until he got on the floor and pulled his pants down! I was like, you want me to just pee on you? and he was like yes!!! I was so freaked out!!

Have you ever had someone ask you to pee on them or have you been pee'd on? Why r guys so weird?!?!?!?!

I'm not certain what's more disturbing,the fact that he wanted you to pee on him right then and there, or the fact that he's the father of your child and wanted you to pee on him.Makes me wonder if he's had this fetish for awhile or if it just recently developed. I for one would not enjoy being peed on, but to each their own I suppose. Perhaps you should ask him where that's coming from.

I wonder why he all of a sudden felt comfortable revealing this fetish to you now......ugh grosss nevertheless!

I think the better question is why do you think you attract such freaky guys?

Well, I've never had sex with a 28 year old man, but I don't think age matters that much. There are drastically different skill levels within every age group, so you could be a 28 y/o sex god, or even a 28 y/o virgin.

I think OP might be refering to sex with a man that is 28 years older than him/her, because of the "older". If so, that sounds kinda
gross. But I haven't done it so I wouldn't know.

Ah, well if that is the case, that's pretty gross.

gross...get with someone around your age...

Make her put it for you.

yes, with her lips...

Aries has all the tricks <.<

Aries has the right idea but that doesn't fly do it quickly while looking at her hot body or thinking about what you're about to do with that thing. Stay focused dude.

If so, are there anyways to help this?

Prolly because of the lack of sex, your body "forgot" how to handle itself during sex. Also, masturbation can cause this, which I'm sure
you did during those 2 years. I'm too lazy to post all the advices so
search the site for similar questions and you'll get your answers.
It's just a "transition" period imo, but if the problem persists, try
some tricks.

Try solving some math problems in your head while having sex

^funny how nobody mentioned this before, I do it a lot too. Usually I square numbers ... and pass out after 25 squared. I kid, but it
works.

eww.

^Hahahahaha, perfect response. You need a trim, dude.

Seems like you need some hedge clippers dude!

Does the wiener still peek out ?

your situation is just sad not "lol"

You're not "not into sex", you just suck really bad at it. There's a difference. Also, where there's a will, there's a way.. and instead,
you decided to give up sex. Sophie's right, your situation is sad,
not lol.

how often do you masturbate? if you do that just prior to sex, you should be able to last a bit longer, otherwise go see a doc.

I lost my virginity to a model (now in Vic Sec!), and blew my load putting the condom on. I apologized, told her I was a virgin, and she laughed at me. It is traumatic. Masturbation about one hour before intercourse should get you throught refractory phase (able to get another erection). Also, Dr. can get you KY jelly with lidocaine. Try just applying it to glans/frenulum at first.

How should we know? Are you two using protection? Has she missed her period? Maybe she should buy a pregnancy test.

No we dont use protection. We last had sex about a week ago or 2

get her to take a pregnancy test

There is never a better time to be blunt with someone... but you're f*cked, son. You best buckle down and start saving funds for that future fetus.