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I just found out that im going to be a 16yr old father....I dont know how to feel about it
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joelle replied 3 days ago
     

Obviously, this is going to jeopardize any plans you had for your life. Go talk to your girlfriend, meet with her parents, and see if you can have her agree to an abortion. An unwanted child is a drama for all parties involved.

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Anonymous replied 2 days ago
     

Well i really din't had any plans for the future. I mean im not going to college any way. So its the baby will not be ruining any plans. What i am worry about is that she is not my girlfriend anymore. We had broke up like a week ago. We really don't get along. And now shes having my baby. Im like DAMMIT!!

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twojsmom replied 2 days ago
     

wow...talk about a bad situation...so theres no chance of an abortion? If not all you can do is make the best of it...good luck...you both will need to grow up and get past whatever disagreements you've has and quick

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Thatguy103 replied 2 days ago
     

Pray and get a job. Not much else you can do

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in : Sex
i have the weirdest problem: I always sneeze when i pee, which makes me spray pee in each and every toilet i visit. i have developed a hand motion that helps, but i still pee on my shoes 5 times a day
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annon replied 3 days ago
     

It's humanly impossible to sneeze while peeing. Trust me, I'm an imaginary scientist.

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Turk replied 3 days ago
     

I had a friend that used to be caused to pee when (after) they sneezed hard.

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joelle replied 3 days ago
     

If these 2 guys were the same person, we would have a perpetual motion.

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joelle replied 3 days ago
     

Even funnier: perpetual miction (look it up !)

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in : Sex
Does the first time hurt ?
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annon replied 3 weeks ago
     

Yes.

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sophie replied 3 weeks ago
     

in some cases the second time as well..

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joelle replied 3 weeks ago
     

It only hurts if he hits you - which is kind of pleasurable as well ;-)

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Athena replied 3 weeks ago
     

It depends on how big he is and how tight you are. Chances are it will hurt a little at first, but you'll ease into it.

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in : Sex
What sexual alternatives exists to avoid loosing my virginity ? I want my bf to be sexually satisfied, but I don't want to have intercourse before marriage.
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annon replied 3 weeks ago
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That's the dumbest thing I've heard in a while. But to answer your question, there's always handjobs, oral and anal sex if you want to
keep your himen intact at all costs. Foreplay can be quite fun, as
long as you finish him off to avoid a bad case of blue balls.

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Athena replied 3 weeks ago
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Hmmm, this is a much debated topic that no one seems to be able to agree upon. Do you lose you virginity upon losing your innocence, or is it not lost until you have been vaginally penetrated. I think most people believe it's somewhere in the middle, but only you can define what virginity means to you. What are you comfortable doing, and what are you comfortable having done to you?

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twojsmom replied 3 weeks ago
     

^what she said^

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crustacean replied 3 weeks ago
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I'm in the "virginity until marriage is a waste" camp but if you believe strongly in it then I'll support you. BJs and handjobs will do the trick for quite a while. Ask yourself though why your values are so much different than your boyfriends and does that matter to you.

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So last weekend the father of my child came over my house to hang out. We were chillin like a family when all of a sudden "nature called" and I had to pee. I walked toward the restroom and once I made it to the door, he asked me was I going to pee. I answered, then I heard foot steps running toward my direction.
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AriesFire replied 1 months ago
     

He got in front of me, dropped to his knees and asked me to piss on him!! I thought he was joking until he got on the floor and pulled his pants down! I was like, you want me to just pee on you? and he was like yes!!! I was so freaked out!!

Have you ever had someone ask you to pee on them or have you been pee'd on? Why r guys so weird?!?!?!?!

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UgoStrange replied 1 months ago
     

I'm not certain what's more disturbing,the fact that he wanted you to pee on him right then and there, or the fact that he's the father of your child and wanted you to pee on him.Makes me wonder if he's had this fetish for awhile or if it just recently developed. I for one would not enjoy being peed on, but to each their own I suppose. Perhaps you should ask him where that's coming from.

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sophie replied 1 months ago
     

I wonder why he all of a sudden felt comfortable revealing this fetish to you now......ugh grosss nevertheless!

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Athena replied 1 months ago
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I think the better question is why do you think you attract such freaky guys?

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in : Sex
how's sex with 28years old older man?
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Athena replied 1 months ago
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Well, I've never had sex with a 28 year old man, but I don't think age matters that much. There are drastically different skill levels within every age group, so you could be a 28 y/o sex god, or even a 28 y/o virgin.

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annon replied 1 months ago
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I think OP might be refering to sex with a man that is 28 years older than him/her, because of the "older". If so, that sounds kinda
gross. But I haven't done it so I wouldn't know.

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Athena replied 1 months ago
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Ah, well if that is the case, that's pretty gross.

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AriesFire replied 1 months ago
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gross...get with someone around your age...

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in : Sex
How do you put on a condom without loosing your erection ?
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annon replied 2 months ago
     

Make her put it for you.

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AriesFire replied 2 months ago
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yes, with her lips...

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Turk replied 1 months ago
     

Aries has all the tricks <.<

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love_your_stuff replied 1 months ago
     

Aries has the right idea but that doesn't fly do it quickly while looking at her hot body or thinking about what you're about to do with that thing. Stay focused dude.

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in : Sex
After a period of about 2 years with no sex at all, I recently started to rev up my sex life again. Except this time, I have a problem where I'm cuming too quickly, sometimes seconds after starting. The first time that it happened, I just figured that its normal because its been so long since I've had sex, but 3 encounters later its still happening. It was never a problem before. Is this normal?
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Anonymous replied 2 months ago
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If so, are there anyways to help this?

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annon replied 2 months ago
     

Prolly because of the lack of sex, your body "forgot" how to handle itself during sex. Also, masturbation can cause this, which I'm sure
you did during those 2 years. I'm too lazy to post all the advices so
search the site for similar questions and you'll get your answers.
It's just a "transition" period imo, but if the problem persists, try
some tricks.

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loua replied 2 months ago
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Try solving some math problems in your head while having sex

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annon replied 2 months ago
     

^funny how nobody mentioned this before, I do it a lot too. Usually I square numbers ... and pass out after 25 squared. I kid, but it
works.

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in : Sex
three inch pubic hair; it's like a bush bigger in radius than a softball....what does that do for you, ladies?
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magneticembrace replied 2 months ago
     

eww.

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Athena replied 2 months ago
     

^Hahahahaha, perfect response. You need a trim, dude.

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Turk replied 2 months ago
     

Seems like you need some hedge clippers dude!

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joelle replied 2 months ago
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Does the wiener still peek out ?

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in : Sex
I really hate sex. my size is good/average but I have premature ejaculation.... first time lasted around 30 seconds. best time was around 5 minutes worst time was about 4 seconds...

and the anxiety of not performing well and lasting long made me be too nervous to get hard at time and auuugh just too frustrating. Im not into sex lol
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sophie replied 2 months ago
     

your situation is just sad not "lol"

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annon replied 2 months ago
     

You're not "not into sex", you just suck really bad at it. There's a difference. Also, where there's a will, there's a way.. and instead,
you decided to give up sex. Sophie's right, your situation is sad,
not lol.

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heartofthepoet replied 2 months ago
     

how often do you masturbate? if you do that just prior to sex, you should be able to last a bit longer, otherwise go see a doc.

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Rainstorm replied 2 months ago
     

I lost my virginity to a model (now in Vic Sec!), and blew my load putting the condom on. I apologized, told her I was a virgin, and she laughed at me. It is traumatic. Masturbation about one hour before intercourse should get you throught refractory phase (able to get another erection). Also, Dr. can get you KY jelly with lidocaine. Try just applying it to glans/frenulum at first.

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