*clears throat* Okay let's pretend...

I think the best thing, for now at least, is to lay low and move on from this little crush you have on him because there's no way (the
way I see it, anyway) for you to get involved with him while he
"loves" your friend. Go find someone else, respect his feelings for
her, stay buddies or whatever and if, over time, he'll forget about
her, start "loving" you and you'll still like..

..him, then give it a shot then. But not now; you won't get his full attention now, while he "loves" her.

Stop watching Romantic Comedies like "My Best friends wedding" and keep it real.

Not a girl, but I think you should lose that haircut.

You're not unattractive.

seeing those pictures made me think of vanilla ice cream...spice it up B...and change the hair style...then you'll be good :)

if I saw you in the street I probably wouldn't give you a second glance..you could definitely use a new hairstyle and some contacts

Not really if you don't want it to be. The other old( hogs) moms might start to hate on you.lol

you're good size/girth wise. just trim it doooown.

You're above average, but it's not freakishly big. Seriously though, guys need to stop obsessing about how big (or small) they are. If it's more than two inches and you know how to use it, you're doing just fine!

2 inches??? Damn, Athena... you are way too understanding. I think any guy above 4 is out of the woods as far as being too small to deliver decent sex with his partner. Any smaller, and it's just embarrassing.

I was exagerating to make a point.

I like to please her, to understand what he wants, induce pleasure deeper, ask her to show me how he enjoys and how it does ... repeat and renew every day for her ...

I would respond most positively if a guy just walked up to me and struck up a casual conversation. If there is chemistry, give her your number. DO NOT USE PICK-UP LINES!

What Athena said. A simple "hi", confidence and hopefully chemistry between the two of you go a long way.

YES! just have something to say, preferably nothing contrived. it doesn't get much hotter than a guy who can keep up with me in a conversation.

Anything but acting like an easy tramp. So I'd say yes.

depends on the person. Some people you need them to jump throw hoops to prove they're not a loser and can pass ur test. Last thing u want to do invest in someone who turns out to be an EPIC loser!

I don't see the point in it

Only if you absolutely KNOW what you're doing. It can be fun to tease and frustrate, but honestly, just play with people you don't care much about. If you're serious about someone, playing games will f*** it all up.

Yeah, of course. Nothing like breaking a marriage.

It's people like you that sustain my decision to never get married.

wht man ! ur married then why just for sex you are betraying your wife.

keep it in your pants or get back to your wife, don't come to this site looking for an approval to cheat on your wife

not.

Uncomfortable that for sure

I don't like it on guys

I do actually...I know its thought of as being a little gay by some but I think an a slim man its attractive.

What do you mean by 'team'? Research team? Does she reciprocate at all? Also, if she's your collegue and not subordinate, a blackmail might not work if you just pursue her in a friendly, non-threatening manner.

just say her that you loves her

In dating people you need to be subtle and very discreet....and flirt "indirectly." But If you dont know what you're doing...don't jeopardize your job over a crush

i think you're secretly in lust. you can't possibly "love" her if you distrust her character enough to believe she'll blackmail you. usually if you're on the same team there is a conflict of interest, so IMO all signs point to "no".