I think they're called hipsters. That is all I know about their cult.

There are guys who are metrosexual (fruit cakes, as you so eloquently put it) and there are guys who are very masculine (manly looking guys). I think most girls go for guys who land somewhere between those two extremes on the spectrum. If you aren't having much luck, stop hating on the fruit cakes and ask yourself, "When is the last time I waxed my back?" Problem solved.

i like dating manly men who dress nicely. there are tons of dudes out there with varying styles. get over it and find something you like.

"When is the last time I waxed my back?".....LOL

I've always accepted constructive criticism, but if she starts getting bossy with lines like "I don't like it when you / I really dislike how
you", she can get her b****y ass out of my face. Except in bed, in
bed she can be as bossy as she wants. "A lady in the street, but a
freak in the bed", a wise Ludacris once said.

I would never try to change someones personality, but small things like, make him quit sleeping on the couch with shoes on, or get him to clean up after himself a bit more, small things like that I think are acceptable...as far as personality goes that's the way he is, and always will be. You either accept it or leave him.

I wouldn't exactly call not cleaning up after themselves to be a small thing, my brother doesn't clean up after himself and it makes me wanna stab him in the eye, I can't imagine having a girlfriend/boyfriend who would be opposed to performing such a menial task. But I see both your points. n_n;;

Everyon has flaws, and if you want to bring someone's flaws to their attention to make them a better person, I have no problem with that. I really hate it, though, when girls try to dress their guy and make him style his hair a certain way.

Eh dinner's dinner, as long as the food is good and the atmosphere is right, you can pretty much pull off anything. And if Garlic and Onions worry you, you can always pack a toothbrush or some breath mints and get a quick rinse in if you're that worried about it. But for the most part, have fun.

If you want to go somewhere romantic, be willing to spend a couple bucks. Olive Garden and Red Lobster have pretty good food, but they aren't romantic. You need to pick a small, cozy restaurant that has fine dining and good wine. Atmosphere is everything when it comes to "romantic."

yes

Are you member of one ?

It wouldn't be SECRET anymore, would it ?

tool

You clearly have self-worth issues that probably stem from events during your adolescence. Did you have highly critical parents? Were you bullied at school? Counseling of some kind might be a good idea.

Go find a cognitive therapist you have actually almost exactly identified what is called a "Dysphoric Core Belief". Usually people with these have mild depression.

Since I believe therapy and depression are nothing but bullshit, I think you just need to find someone to f*** the living shit out of
you. And I'm not talking the "omg that was so awesome" kind of
f***; I mean the quintuple orgasm, sweaty, doing positions you
never thought you are flexible enough to sit in, scream until the
neighbours call the cops, unable to walk right for a week but..

..smiling and feeling high as f*** the next day type of f***. It won't be easy to find, I know, but you sound like you need it.

A man who feels a need to date women significantly younger than himself is not worth your time.

GROSS!!!

yassss! Dont waste your precious time.

Wow! I'm sorry. That sucks. Your better off without him.

By the way, she's White in case anyone's wondering.

You can piggy back me anytime sweetie xoxo But I get that a lot too. Guys are intimidated to date me because of family pressures to not date black women. Their familities would be more accepting to their sons IR dating if i were white (in the case of minorities dating "outside" the race) But after the parents actually meet me, they love me. (except JJ Guy parents) understand?

I do understand. However my reason for asking is it seems as if Black is a problem. Each time I've talked to most of my White female friends their Father explicitly said Black, not Latino or Arabic or Indian or Native American or Jewish or so on, it was specifically Black. Kinda makes me wonder if it's JUST Black people and not everyone else.

There's a scene in "The Sopranos" in which Meadow brings home a Black/Jewish boy, they weren't dating at the time and Tony expresses his disgust with the boy's interest in Meadow making the conversation explicitly racist. I wonder if we would've reacted the same to your average White boy or an Irish kid. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rynqbJ53DBE

in most cases when anyone does anything outside the box you tend to get hated on. I personally haven't dated someone outside my race yet, but I definitely wouldn't mind.

Dating only inside your own race is racist (not that I've dated anyone outside mine, but I would definitely try it, if she's a cool
chick) so whoever gives you shit about your interracial
relationships is a douchebag racist.

i never pay attention to what race the person i'm dating, until maybe later when language or cultural points are made. it's not like i must date only this kind. i am however, mostly attracted to light skinned people. with that said though, i've dated hispanic, white, syrian and mixed race people though.

My mom is adamantly against it 100% She says she's not...but she is. However my girlfriend isn't African American and my mom doesn't mind mostly because my girlfriend is the nicest person ever. But I can bet my bottom dollar that if I showed up with some White chick my mom will give me an earful about it later. Me personally, I don't care.

i'm here conctact me!!

real down to earth, funny, sarcastic guys

artsy, straightup and chill...

looks: dark hair, light skin, eye color varies, skinny, tall. personality: mellow, smart, twisted sense of humor, somewhat insecure.

^ somewhat insecure?