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Some guys focus more on how to get a girl but once they have her, they lose focus on how to keep her.
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"Once a cheater always a cheater," is this true?
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UgoStrange replied 7 months ago
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Well a lot of factors go into cheating. Like his/her bf/gf beat her or she's just totally mean to the guy then I could how those situations would lead someone to cheat. BUT if they have a history of cheating randomly...I'd TOTALLY support "Once a cheater always a cheater."

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crustacean replied 7 months ago
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I don't like generalizations like this. Depends on the guy and why he cheated to begin with. I don't believe this is always true but is probably "mostly true". For me I'd like to think that I'm not destined to be "always a cheater" because I had a poor choice in the past.

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EarthDKaider replied 7 months ago
     

This is SO not true, I've cheated plenty of times in the past!...Oh wait...

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Jitterbug replied 7 months ago
     

Yeah its a pretty good rule of thumb

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Taking a moment to say I'm having a wonderful time. For a while now I've been dating the best girl I've ever met. It's like she just always knows exactly what to say. I'm so pleased to able to make her happy! And on top of that it's the best sex of my life. Many of the things we do shes never done before and shes so surprised to like it..to love it and I'm happy to show her
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Waverly replied 7 months ago
     

that's great! happy for u:)

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MissAmarie replied 4 days ago
     

Congrats! Few people find true happiness, hold onto it :)

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Guys: What is your DREAM race for a girl?
I just wanted to know. This might be interesting.
Like greek, italian, arabian etc. whatever!
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crustacean replied 8 months ago
     

Scandinavian! Blonde hair and blue eyes will forever slay me....

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awitty1 replied 8 months ago
     

Persian. Dark hair, green eyes

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metalmurf replied 8 months ago
     

Irish. Red hair and a kick-ass accent.

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artie_fm replied 8 months ago
     

Everything. You should have to ask what her ancestry is.

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Can you makeout with an expander/retainer?
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EarthDKaider replied 8 months ago
     

i'd take it out if i were you, trust me

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Athena replied 8 months ago
     

I second that.

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lookingdeeper replied 7 months ago
     

can, not recommended

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Hot and heavy for a long weekend, then she had a family member pass away and since then it has been very very cold. What to do? I am very very into her.
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UgoStrange replied 8 months ago
     

Be there for her. It's times like this when she needs someone in her life she can go to and feel safe with. Things will eventually get back to the way they were. My girlfriend's father passed away '09 and she took it hard but I was there for her and eventually things got back to normal. So just let her cry and do what she needs to and be there for her.

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awitty1 replied 8 months ago
     

Thanks. That's pretty much what I've been doing but when you are really into someone like I am her it is difficult to watch her saddness. I don't want to be too "needy" or too available. It goes against my nature but I've been burned in the past for putting my feeling "out there" This time I think I need to be smart and sit back and let thisngs flow !

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UgoStrange replied 8 months ago
     

Sometimes ya just gotta risk getting burned.

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Is it cheating if your not actually doing it?
Ok so I have a bf but I've been flirting with this other guy over text and I asked him if it was cheating and he said no if we weren't actually doing anything to each other. But is it cheating if you are flirting with another guy over text?
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metalmurf replied 9 months ago
     

It's cheating to me because if you really cared for the guy you're with now, you wouldn't tolerate that kind of behavior from your text buddy or yourself. Be true to yourself. Decide what you want. If it's with this text buddy or just single, show your current boyfriend and yourself some respect and break-up with him.

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Athena replied 9 months ago
     

Completely agree^ You're seeking sexual attention from someone other than your bf, and even if it isn't physical, you're still going behind his back.

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crustacean replied 9 months ago
     

The simplist rule of thumb is that if you feel guilty then it's cheating (or you're just an ass).

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EarthDKaider replied 9 months ago
     

i don't play that shit. my girl goes around textin' some dude i don't know and flirtin' you can believe imma ask what's up.

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My long distance girl friend is an terrible mood , how can i make her feel better?
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UgoStrange replied 9 months ago
     

In a long distance relationship, communication IS VERY important! Talk to her and see what's going on with her. Long Distance relationships don't HAVE to be difficult. I'm in one now, been that way for 3 years, going on 4 and we did that through communication. Listen to her, let her b**** if she wants to b**** and let her know you're there. Hope that helps.

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When a woman calls a man just to say good morning, what kind of relationship have they established already?
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SMASHDATASS13 replied 10 months ago
     

a good one but dont get too carried ahead if you like her take it slow

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time_change replied 8 months ago
     

to get some job done...

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If you've been dating someone for 6+ months, how often should you be spending time together? Every day? A few times a week? Once a week?
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love786 replied 10 months ago
     

I guess it depends on many things but, mostly how far has this relationship gone. I would prefer 2 keep it too Once or Twice a week

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Kuzmak replied 10 months ago
     

Interesting. That's where I would expect the relationship to start--- like in the first one or two months.

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annon replied 10 months ago
     

Once or twice a week after 6 months ? What are you, a prude ? Just go with your heart (cheesy, i know, shut up) - if you feel the
need to be with him/her every day, do that; if you feel you need
time off, go for once a week or something similar. It's not rocket
science. Basically: If it feels good, keep doing it because it won't
last forever. If it feels bad, stop doing it for a while.

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sophie replied 9 months ago
     

it really depends on the relationship, what's right for one couple isn't the same for the next. Just go with the flow

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