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in : Breakup
i broke up with my girl cuz she was with dating this other guy for 2weeks while she's been with me. So i find out nd she dosen't care so ok i move on. Now she has been calling me none stop telling me to forgive her and asking for me back. Oh and i found out that she was cheating on that guy 2 dats why he dump her. But yea, i dont want her. Wat do i do to let her get the message cuz
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Anonymous replied 4 days ago
     

i keep cursing her out telling her to leave me alone and she keeps calling she keeps texting and im like b**** u f***ed up i dont want u anymore..she wont listen

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annon replied 4 days ago
     

Once a cheater, always a cheater. I know it and you know it so don't you dare fall for her stupid tricks. She's a b**** and deserves
to be dumped. My advice for your situation is to ignore her, since
all the cursing and saying no seems to not work. Ignore her calls,
don't read/reply to her texts, ignore the emails, block ALL possible
contact with her. It will take a while, but..

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annon replied 4 days ago
     

..at one point, she will understand that it's over for good and will leave you alone.Whatever you do, do not take her back. Like I
said, once a cheater, always a cheater.

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sophie replied 3 days ago
     

just ignore her and move on, eventually she will get the message...

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My girlfriend mother just passed. I was planning to break-up with her, and I feel that it would be an awful timing now. How long should I wait ? (we have been together 8 months)
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juan replied 2 weeks ago
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If you don't want to be a douche then wait 2 months, right now your probably a person she really needs to help her through this. In 2 months her immediate grieving should be done and she will be able to t deal with a break up much better.

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Athena replied 2 weeks ago
     

Yeah, now is not a good time to break up with her. I realize that you want to end things with her, but I hope that you still care about her in some way. If that is the case, be there as a supporting friend. As she begins to feel better, then consider breaking up.

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sophie replied 2 weeks ago
     

two months is a bit much ...I think one month should be fine

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Me82 replied 2 weeks ago
     

For personal experience ... if you don't love her anymore leave her. Don't stay and don't wait her to be better!!!! My ex - bf did the same with me when I lost my father and I hate him for this thing.

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I'm in a boooooring relationship, but sex is amazing. I am 30 and it's by far the best sex in my life so far. Stay or go ?
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twojsmom replied 1 months ago
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STAY!!! Seek your intellectual stimulation from your friends

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Athena replied 1 months ago
     

I agree^

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annon replied 1 months ago
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STAY! Fuck 'till andropause, then find someone to grow old with.

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sophie replied 1 months ago
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I say let the good times roll, if the relationship is so boring talk less and f*** more

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in : Breakup
So I saw her my ex today. I still love her. But it will never work out between us due to religion/culture. But regardless, she was sitting next to a giant black guy.. sigh... I honestly wanted to die. was about to start crying at work. But then suddenly i just thought, "you have such feelings for her cuz the break up is fresh, give it time and youll forget, just like all the previous 'LOVES'
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AriesFire replied 2 months ago
     

"Sitting next to a giant black guy" what the f*** does that mean?

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annon replied 2 months ago
     

FYI: Forgetting her and easing the pain of a break-up does NOT include constantly seeing her. You're just making it worse on
yourself.

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AriesFire replied 2 months ago
     

*second @annon...but seriously, What the f*** does that mean?

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sophie replied 2 months ago
     

giant part I get but what does black have to do with it?

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in : Breakup
Who uses sex toys ?
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sophie replied 2 months ago
     

your mom

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annon replied 2 months ago
     

^god damn you, sophie, stop reading my mind!

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Daxter replied 2 months ago
     

ROFL

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nessa replied 2 months ago
     

hahahahaha @sophie

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hey people i guess i will be most unhappy person in this festival season.My bf left me....
i want to move on please tell me what should i do?
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Gerard replied 3 months ago
     

just start talking to other guys you are interested in.

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AriesFire replied 3 months ago
     

Be alone and learn more about yourself. Don't jump into a new relationship...

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magneticembrace replied 3 months ago
     

listen to sappy music, eat food that's bad for you, watch some movies for a day or two. then get over, busy yourself up and think of all your bf's negative qualities. you can do better.

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sophie replied 3 months ago
     

chocolate...and lots of it

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in : Breakup
So my ex didn't even have the cajones to break up with me, he just never returned my phone calls/texts. It's been months now, but I still feel crappy... what the hell do I do to get him out of my brain?!
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UgoStrange replied 3 months ago
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Realize that if you keep thinking about him you're letting him control your life, get angry and move on. No one should have that power over you but you. He sure as hell ain't thinkin' about you, so don't bother with a prick like that.

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annon replied 3 months ago
     

Well that sucks. Anyway, if you rly loved/liked him, only time will help .. and hiding/throwing away anything that might remind you of
him. I'd say start dating, meeting new guys ASAP, but that doesn't
work for everyone. Still, worth a shot, imo. Anything to keep your
mind off him, right ? Btw, what a douche.

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carameldelight replied 3 months ago
     

Your hearts still attached, I'm in the same situation, you feel like you're walking in the twilight zone. Everyone says " he's a j***" get over him, but you can't...they just don't understand. How do you tell your heart to get over it.

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carameldelight replied 3 months ago
     

Been in the same situation, this guy was a thug, wouldn't even acknowledge we were in a relationship for 6 years, but went through the motions of it. Only see him at night, at the end, he stopped calling me, he avoided me, then we got together and I saw a necklace on his neck saying "I love you" said he found it...liar...

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We didn't talk officially, but its over with a girl I've been seeing. We haven't been together in a long time, where we used to hang out twice a week. Phone calls are rare and short. I see her everyday, and recently she has been extra nice/flirty. I called and she was short with me. I'm sure ending it is for the best..but what do I do about the huge heartache.
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annon replied 4 months ago
     

Get busy doing other things you like, keep your mind off her and wait for the pain to go away. That's the only way.

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annon replied 4 months ago
     

Also, the less contact you have with her, the better.

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artie_fm replied 4 months ago
     

I don't think she is mean..just doesn't feel same as me although that doesn't explain why she goes out of way to sit next to me or come over and chat. Also she is back with her ex at least for now. I think the explaintion is she likes backup plans. Shes keeping all her options open.
Whatever..The only thing I have control over here is my insecurity. I need to fix me... how???

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artie_fm replied 4 months ago
     

trying to keep doing things I like. It's better than sitting at home, but not enough I think.

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Should I break up with a girl just to see how she would react? You know say it for a day then make up the next day if she doesn't go ape shit? if she goes nuts then I know the relationship can not end well anyways and thus I end it on my terms and avoid any future investment and drama. if the girl takes it well but not happy with it and does not go psycho then I make up with her. Good plan?
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Daxter replied 4 months ago
     

I think that would be a bad idea

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juicy_j replied 4 months ago
     

My girlfriend, gave me some fake test, ultimatum and I broke up with her, and I dont have time for game. Some people have lil tolerance for bullshit games. Its weak and generally comes from a place of fear and insecurity.

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UgoStrange replied 4 months ago
     

No...Honestly...no...this is something you'd find in a bad sitcom. And from where I'm sitting, it seems like you really don't have much invested in this relationship to begin with if you're gonna ask a question like that.

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Anonymous replied 4 months ago
     

The issue is women go ape shit at times when a relationship does not work out and THEN show there true side, in the process making my life a living hell. Doing this will show me if the woman will do the same if things go south. (Why work on a relationship for "Till Death do us part") if that won't happend and I would have no clue. Doing this will at least tell me if its a good idea.

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Is a small penis a good enough reason for a breakup ? Otherwise, the guy is OK (not great). What am I missing out ?
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sophie replied 4 months ago
     

depends on how small...

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magneticembrace replied 4 months ago
     

can he get you to cum otherwise?

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hello replied 4 months ago
     

it sucks for the guy because it isn't something that he can control but then again if you are suffering because of it you might need to think about it...oi honestly don't know...sorry

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Daxter replied 4 months ago
     

just how small are we talking about?

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